Comments on: How often should I buy gifts for my girl?

By: A long Nite - Live Lyfe :)

A long Nite - Live Lyfe :) — Mon, 15 Jun 2009 09:27:27 +0000

Nah bro,

if u buy her things too much she builds up a need for more and more expensive things,

id say save that money and buy her somethin really nice like for her birthday and anniiversery,
these days matter most and the fact that u remember is a gift in itself

By: matty.mcalister

matty.mcalister — Mon, 15 Jun 2009 09:27:27 +0000

Maybe buy her smaller gifts, not spending as much money, and the money you save, put it aside to get her extra special gifts and christmas and birthdays etc?

Also your right, money can't buy you love, so just watch what your doing mate, if she loves you, she'll love you without you buying her gifts.

By: Meagan

Meagan — Mon, 15 Jun 2009 09:27:27 +0000

I think that every time you see something that reminds you of her, you should buy it. but just little things like flowers, or candy. or a picture of you guys.

and then you should just stay with what your doing too.

By: Just me

Just me — Mon, 15 Jun 2009 09:27:27 +0000

Your thoughts are wonerful

By: Elie V

Elie V — Mon, 15 Jun 2009 09:27:27 +0000

Im a girl, and I think you should only by her gifts on like Birthdays, christmas, or anniversaries. Take her out on dates, and use that money for movies, amusement parks, beach, zoos. Not on gifts. It gets a bit annoying when a guy starts buying you gifts out of random occasions. Save up for really celebrations or when you guys go out :]

By: EmilyJane

EmilyJane — Mon, 15 Jun 2009 09:27:27 +0000

My man spoils me every now and then. it's really really a nice gesture, and i'm sure your girl gets mad at you for spending money on her haha. i do it all the time. but we still love it. Its nice to know that someone thinks of us and wants to see us smile and be happy and it keeps the love/sparks in the relationship. Id say. spoil her as much as you feel like it, but i wouldnt spend that much everytime. you can get her small things. why not make her something? I know guys struggle abit with that but its cheaper, more meaningful, and you can never go wrong with that!
And by the way. usualy the gift doesn't mean as much as the words you put with it. or the moment you gave it to her. Im sure she thinks more about the nice things you say then the shoes she wears

Ask her if its a problem, shell tell you

ps: Long live gentlemen like you! Glad to know there are guys like you out there

By: Ahepatsy

Ahepatsy — Mon, 15 Jun 2009 09:27:27 +0000

holy crap! save that money for something else… if you really love the girl save it for a wedding or something… I bet being pampered is nice but wow that's a lot. If you still want to pamper her take her out for a nice meal once a month or something expensive gifts are nice and all but you probably have other needs to pay for. if you really want just save smaller amounts for a longer time for something really really nice later in life. trust me when I say spending that much money on gifts is not a good idea. Gifts like that are meant for birthdays or Christmas… maybe even an anniversary of over a month… by that I mean every year or more.

By: M101

M101 — Mon, 15 Jun 2009 09:27:27 +0000

Wow. Are you a complete idiot? It's completely unnecessary to buy girls gifts. That shows how insecure you are with your relationship that you feel you need to buy her affection. The best gift you can give a woman is your attention. When you don't value yourself, you think that your attention isn't enough. So you try to make up for that lack by buying her things. What you're really telling her is you're an insecure guy with very little value to offer her. You sound like a typical "nice guy" who usually gets dumped or ends up in the "just friends" zone. You need a lot of help. Fortunately for you, manhood101.com has the answer.